In the fictional world we find the essence of our real lives: the imaginary reel guides us through the various faces of life and make us understand the complexities and sophistication of living. Movies, especially romantic films are a perfect destination to revisit for dating and romantic ideas as a lot of research, creative process, collaboration and brainstorming goes into making a good movie especially if the movie qualifies for The Classic. Let’s brows through some of the best advices given by some of the best movies.
Best Dating Advices From Movies
1. Sex and the City
Advice: “But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that’s just fabulous.”
When you love yourself, you admire your true self and spend some time with you too. You admire your strong areas, work upon the weaker parts and accept those limitations, which you cannot change.
The movie was produced in 2008, Directed by, Michael Patrick King & Adopted from HBO Comedy series, Sex and the city.
2. What’s Your Number?
Advice: Future will give you the right person, past would not – your ex is an ex for a reason
Don’t give a second chance to your exes, the first was enough. If a relationship could not continue for longer and ended up eventually it means there was something wrong either with the guy or in the relationship at the first place. Search for the right person in future, not from list of the past.
The movie was produced in 2011, Directed by Mark Mylod & Based on Book, 20 Times a Lady by Karyn Bosnak
3. Breakfast at Tiffany’s
Advice: “Sure I loved her. But it wasn’t that I wanted to touch her”
Sex is not essential or the only reason to love someone. Sex may be a part of the love life but loving someone only for sex is not love but something else.
The movie was produced in 1961, Directed by Blake Edwards & adapted from Truman Capote’s masterpiece, Breakfast at Tiffany’s.
Advice: “Life is not the amount of breaths you take, it’s the moments that take your breath away.”
Don’t count life in length: years and age, but those moments which surprised you, made you laugh, cry, smile and you enjoyed the very moment.
The movie was produced in 2005, Directed by Andy Tennant & Starring Will Smith & Eva Mendes
5. The Notebook
Advice: “I am nothing special; just a common man with common thoughts, and I’ve led a common life…But in one respect I have succeeded as gloriously as anyone who’s ever lived: I’ve loved another with all my heart and soul; and to me, this has always been enough.”
The movie was produced in 2004, Directed by Nick Cassavetes & Adapted from the Book, The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks in 1996
6. Love Actually
Advice: “True love lasts a lifetime.”
This is the nature of love; it does not come with an expiry date, it’s lasts a lifetime if it’s neither fake nor loved half-heatedly. It’s a phenomenon which continues without interruption or break-up if the lovers are attached to each other truly without expectation of any material favor.
The movie was produced in 2003, Directed by Richard Curtis & Starring Hugh Grant, Emma Thompson & Alan Rickman
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Advice: “I’d never given much thought to how I would die, but dying in the place of someone I love seems like a good way to go.”
Even the horrible idea of dying seems a romantic trip to the lovers who are in love.
The movie was produced in 2008, Directed by Catherine Hardwicke & Based on novel Twilight by Stephenie Meyer
8. The Perks of Being a Wallflower
Advice: “We accept the love we think we deserve.”
The other, whom we have accepted as the better half of ourselves is the mirror image of what we think is the best of us.
The movie was produced in 2012, Directed by Stephen Chbosky & Based on novel The Perks of Being a Wallflower
9. The Lucky One
Advice: “Sometimes finding the light means you must pass through the deepest darkness. At least, that’s how it was for me.”
At the end of the tunnel, the darkness in the tunnel is light; The light is the reward for the arduous journey we understake to find the true love.
The movie was produced in 2012, Directed by Scott Hicks based on novel The Lucky One
Advice: “The saddest people I’ve ever met in life are the ones who don’t care deeply about anything at all.”
When we delve into deepness of life we come out with the pearl of wisdom which guide us through the journey of life. Living on surface or avoiding deeper areas make our lives a superficial and hollow one. The sadness is the by-product of the empty life.
The movie was produced in 2010, Directed by Lasse Hallström based on the novel Dear John by Nicholas Sparks
11. The Fault in Our Stars
Advice: “I’m in love with you, and I’m not in the business of denying myself the simple pleasure of saying true things. I’m in love with you, and I know that love is just a shout into the void, and that oblivion is inevitable, and that we’re all doomed and that there will come a day when all our labor has been returned to dust, and I know the sun will swallow the only earth we’ll ever have, and I am in love with you.”
The movie was produced in 2014, Directed by Josh Boone based on the novel The Fault in Our Stars by John Green
12. If I Stay
Advice: “That’s how we manage to survive the lost. Because love, it never dies, it never goes away; it never fades, so long as you hang on to it.”
The movie was produced in 2014, Directed by R. J. Cutler based on the novel If I Stay by Gayle Forman
13. The Vow
Advice: I vow to help you love life, to always hold you with tenderness, to have the patience that love demands, to speak when words are needed, and to share the silence when they are not, to agree to disagree about red velvet cake, to live within the warmth of your heart, and always call it home.
The movie was produced in 2012, Directed by Michael Sucsy, Starring Channing Tatum & Rachel McAdams
14. Good Will Hunting
Advice: “You’re not perfect, sport, and let me save you the suspense: this girl you’ve met, she’s not perfect either. But the question is whether or not you’re perfect for each other.”
The movie was produced in 1997, Directed by Gus Van Sant, Starring Robin Williams, Matt Damon & Ben Affleck
15. Friends with Benefits
Advice: ” “It’s not who you want to spend Friday night with. It’s who you want to spend all day Saturday with.”
The movie was produced in 2011, Directed by Will Gluck, Starring Justin Timberlake, Mila Kunis & Others
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